Tuesday, March 1, 2011
Open your Heart .. Am Coming Home !
Oh how i wish i could just say that to you .. i miss my home so much aka your heart i miss knowing that it was my place .. i miss your smell your warmness i miss not being lonely without you .. i wanna come back home i need to feel protected again i miss that feeling of knowing that someone has my back not just someone that feeling of you having my back .. i wish i could just re live one of those days when we grabbed a pizza and just went there into our own magical world where no one can reach us it was all me and you just having fun just there for each other just loving each other .. i really need one of those days .. those days are what makes me hate you and love you at the same time .. hate you for letting me go and depriving me from such days and love you cause you really gave me such great memories when we were together !
The Art of Moving on
Moving on is not an overnight activity. You
cannot simply say at night that you will move on tomorrow and expect it
to happen the next day. It is a hurting process, made more painful if
you still have that small part in you hoping against hope that he will
come back. If you are missing your ex boyfriend now but you do not know
how to move on, here are some things to help you do that moving on
process.
• Stick to your mind the fact that the two of you are over. When all you can think about is missing your ex boyfriend, that is exactly what you will feel. Get a hold of yourself, girl, and do not pick up that phone to call him. Moving on can be made easy if you will only help yourself, not push it to desperation.
• Remove from your sight all those things which remind you of him. Give him back what he owns and get back those which are yours. If you will continuously keep those trinkets and mementos in your room, missing your ex boyfriend will only worsen. Do not dwell in self-torture by looking at something as insignificant as a restaurant receipt that will just bring back memories of him.
• Let go of your pent-up emotions by writing a letter addressed to your ex then burning it afterwards. You can write here how much you valued your relationship, how much you love him or something saying that you are missing your ex boyfriend. This will serve as the channel of those words that you cannot directly say to your ex. After burning it, you will feel not only satisfaction but also relief.
• A romantic relationship might have ended but friendship must not be forgotten. Since most people tend to overlook their friends and relatives when they are in a relationship, reconnecting with them after a break up will be good. You can stop from missing your ex if you will mingle with those people who truly care for you. Even if a thousand boyfriends dump you, these people will surely never leave your side.
• When you were in the relationship, most of your time was spent with him. So now that you are single again, it is good if you will start meeting new faces by engaging in worthy activities. Fill that emotional emptiness of yours with schedules of dance lessons, extension courses, environmental activities and the likes. These things will help you take out of your mind those thoughts of him, making moving on a bit easier.
• Stick to your mind the fact that the two of you are over. When all you can think about is missing your ex boyfriend, that is exactly what you will feel. Get a hold of yourself, girl, and do not pick up that phone to call him. Moving on can be made easy if you will only help yourself, not push it to desperation.
• Remove from your sight all those things which remind you of him. Give him back what he owns and get back those which are yours. If you will continuously keep those trinkets and mementos in your room, missing your ex boyfriend will only worsen. Do not dwell in self-torture by looking at something as insignificant as a restaurant receipt that will just bring back memories of him.
• Let go of your pent-up emotions by writing a letter addressed to your ex then burning it afterwards. You can write here how much you valued your relationship, how much you love him or something saying that you are missing your ex boyfriend. This will serve as the channel of those words that you cannot directly say to your ex. After burning it, you will feel not only satisfaction but also relief.
• A romantic relationship might have ended but friendship must not be forgotten. Since most people tend to overlook their friends and relatives when they are in a relationship, reconnecting with them after a break up will be good. You can stop from missing your ex if you will mingle with those people who truly care for you. Even if a thousand boyfriends dump you, these people will surely never leave your side.
• When you were in the relationship, most of your time was spent with him. So now that you are single again, it is good if you will start meeting new faces by engaging in worthy activities. Fill that emotional emptiness of yours with schedules of dance lessons, extension courses, environmental activities and the likes. These things will help you take out of your mind those thoughts of him, making moving on a bit easier.
A New Day Has Come :)
Morning Y'all !
just woke up like two hours ago .. Sorry been so busy these last few days i cudn't update my blog ! on sunday i went out with my friend Sarah , just like the old times really i was so happy i had so much fun we hanged out a lil bit had lunch @ Macdonalds which is our favorite place on earth lol and typically we shared the fries as ALWAYS hehe then we went to the sports club there is this kids swing we always sit on and buy some big fat bag of candy and gummy bears and start eating it and talking about any shit on our minds hehe oh how i missed that and how i missed having my best friend with me it was fun actually :)
i have an organic chemisty exam in few days and i should probably start studying for it lol i had the weirdest dream yesterday that i got a really high mark on my english exam ! and thw weird part is i dun even take English anymore lol
am a bit sick today :( sore throat :( ) .. wish me to get well soon readers haha
anyways i'll update soon with more songs or anything that come up on my mind lol
ttyl . hugs
just woke up like two hours ago .. Sorry been so busy these last few days i cudn't update my blog ! on sunday i went out with my friend Sarah , just like the old times really i was so happy i had so much fun we hanged out a lil bit had lunch @ Macdonalds which is our favorite place on earth lol and typically we shared the fries as ALWAYS hehe then we went to the sports club there is this kids swing we always sit on and buy some big fat bag of candy and gummy bears and start eating it and talking about any shit on our minds hehe oh how i missed that and how i missed having my best friend with me it was fun actually :)
i have an organic chemisty exam in few days and i should probably start studying for it lol i had the weirdest dream yesterday that i got a really high mark on my english exam ! and thw weird part is i dun even take English anymore lol
am a bit sick today :( sore throat :( ) .. wish me to get well soon readers haha
anyways i'll update soon with more songs or anything that come up on my mind lol
ttyl . hugs
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)